Take on the fading flame

Take on the fading flame

How to take on the legacy of who passes away.

Meg Pagani
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Maybe some voices turn off to provoke us.

As the daughter of a hospice nurse and having lost my father when I was 11, what we call "end of life" is both something I had to confront early on, and a topic that I'm often exposed to. And helped me develop muscles to navigate it.

When someone we know passes away, a light in our universe turns off. It doesn't matter if we knew them directly or indirectly – their life and message was like a flame for us: a point of reference, a source insights, and more. When they die, that flame fades away, leaving an empty space.

And one of the big questions when we lose someone is: what do we do with it?

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